I had never thought about grief as being something that cracks us open to new experiences, only as being a closing experience--turning one's back on the world. Thank you for this new understanding. It helps me face the future, which contains the inevitable of loss after loss.
Thought-provoking insights. I have a question, could you give an example of what part of a memory to keep private? It makes sense, but an example would help me.
Hi Patty - Each author seemed to feel that they were still entitled to some privacy in their relationship with their spouse. That might be a love name, a funny story, how they met, or something more intimate. Whatever it was, they left that out of their writing.
Thanks for being so brave and open in order to help others. Your “messages that most resonated” are profound. Experiencing your work, I am learning and stretching in some small way too. Thank you for inviting me to be part of your grief. Hugs.
Thank you so much for posting this. I very much wanted to go to this event but couldn't make it happen. I am so grateful to read your insights about the wonderful weekend with my favorite authors and grief movers and shakers.
Sounds like a great gathering of people who truly understand. I’ve found sharing in grief with other parents who lost a child is some of the best medicine for my soul. That level of compassion and empathy is only possible if you have gone through the unthinkable. Those who haven’t lost a child can’t possibly understand the depth of the pain. And in fact, it’s just too painful for most and a natural defense is to convince yourself “that can’t ever happen to us.” Until it does.
I had never thought about grief as being something that cracks us open to new experiences, only as being a closing experience--turning one's back on the world. Thank you for this new understanding. It helps me face the future, which contains the inevitable of loss after loss.
Thanks so much for reading Lucy!
The gifts of grief makes this journey more bearable. I started writing poetry in 2018 after I found Alyssa’s nearly empty poetry journal.
The Creative Process keeps me going.
The had no idea about this event.
Is there a mailing list to join to find out about future events?
Hi Marjorie - Thanks so much for your comment. I think the event could have been more broadly marketed...I would suggest following Meghan here https://www.instagram.com/meghan.riordan.jarvis/
Thought-provoking insights. I have a question, could you give an example of what part of a memory to keep private? It makes sense, but an example would help me.
Hi Patty - Each author seemed to feel that they were still entitled to some privacy in their relationship with their spouse. That might be a love name, a funny story, how they met, or something more intimate. Whatever it was, they left that out of their writing.
So glad to have met you there.
So honored to meet you Jessica. I'm excited to start "Breath Taking: A Memoir of Family, Dreams, and Broken Genes" on my Kindle.
Thanks for being so brave and open in order to help others. Your “messages that most resonated” are profound. Experiencing your work, I am learning and stretching in some small way too. Thank you for inviting me to be part of your grief. Hugs.
Thank you so much Stacy. Really honored to share with you.
Thank you so much for posting this. I very much wanted to go to this event but couldn't make it happen. I am so grateful to read your insights about the wonderful weekend with my favorite authors and grief movers and shakers.
Thank you Mary. Maybe we can meet up at the next Grieftastic event.
If they have it again, I would love to try and make it. I wish it were closer to Chicago!
Sounds like a great gathering of people who truly understand. I’ve found sharing in grief with other parents who lost a child is some of the best medicine for my soul. That level of compassion and empathy is only possible if you have gone through the unthinkable. Those who haven’t lost a child can’t possibly understand the depth of the pain. And in fact, it’s just too painful for most and a natural defense is to convince yourself “that can’t ever happen to us.” Until it does.
It was absolutely that kind of event Linda. I'm excited to read these books and share the highlights. Sending love to you and your family.